When a loved one has been cremated there are a number of options to memorialise them.  The list below is not exhaustive, but will give you a good idea of the options available.

Scattering:
The scattering of ashes is a popular option but is a very personal approach and one that should be discussed by the family. Once the ashes are scattered there’s no room for second thoughts. Often the wishes of the deceased are indicated in a will or request prior to their passing and is up to the relatives or family/friends as to the timing or ability to fulfill their wishes.

Ashes may be scattered at the person’s favourite location, at a park, from a small aircraft or hot air balloon (check with the aircraft operators as to the suitability of winds and operational mechanics of the craft before planning air scatterings. You may find with some helicopters or aircraft that ashes may be accidently swept into mechanical areas or engines due to wind turbulence.) We have found ocean scatterings to be quite a popular option for clients. The ‘Shell’ and ‘Journey’ water biodegradable urns are designed to hold the entire ashes inside, float for five minutes then gracefully sink to the ocean floor before degrading and having the ashes scattered by the ocean currents. Some countries have strict rules as to the disposal of ashes in waterways. Check with local councils as to any restrictions on where you are planning your scatterings. In general most areas are fine as long as it is not a designated marine sanctuary or at absolute beachfront near the shore. We can be of assistance in some cases obtaining information.

At Home:
Most people aren’t aware that it’s ok to have your loved ones ashes interned into a brick wall at home, the same as most cemetaries. Most however opt for some style of urn. Unique sculptured urns that look more like modern art objects have risen in popularity as families treasure having ashes kept inside their homes but are not wanting the traditional ‘vase’ shaped urns made from metal. Crystal, ceramics, and even rare woods are being used to create one-off and unique designs that reflect the individuality of the person that has passed on.

If you were considering some style of garden memorial where the ashes are being buried in the earth, there are some good options. You may consider and eco friendly ‘green’ style of biodegradable urn which is made from recycled paper materials or other biodegradable material. These bio urns have ashes placed in them and are then buried in the soil. They break down naturally over a period of approximately three months.

A more permanent ash burial solution is to use an urn of material such as marble which is far more sturdy and longer lasting than most types of metal urns. Marble will naturally lose its lustre but being stone will ensure that the ashes inside are well protected from the elements. If you ever need to move house it can be easily exhumed with confidence knowing your loved one’s cremains are still secure inside. Keep in mind that all urns should have their lids sealed securely.

Columbarium/Mausoleum:
These are the name of specifically designated structures for the placement of urns containg ashes. A Columbarium is constructed solely for ashes whereas a Mausoleum is for both caskets and entombments of the non-cremated as well as urns with ashes. These structures may be free standing or built in to part of a church or other memorial and can be located in private areas or cemetaries and church grounds.

Cemeteries
Most cemeteries will have a section of grounds dedicated to the disposition of ashes. Generally you will find such options as Rememberence Walls and Scattering Gardens, along with options to have the ashes buried under a tree, rose bush, shrubbery etc and a plaque placed with the ashes in dedication of your loved one.